Why Guys Like Girls…

Wednesday, 13. February 2008 - 10:58 pm

loveHere’s a few reasons why guys like girls… I didn’t write this… just found it years ago and thought it was worth holding on to. Seems a fitting time to re-post it.

1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it all worth while
8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she’s the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. The way her hand always finds yours
13. The way they smile
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight
15. The way she says “lets not fight anymore” even though you know that an hour later you will be arguing about something
16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say “I love you’
18. Actually … just the way they kiss you…
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt . (even though we don’t admit it)!
23. The way they say “I miss you”
24. The way you miss them
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn’t hurt her anymore…..

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them … it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitably consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.

66 comments

  1. aisha

    i think this is really sweet lol xx

  2. Stina

    too bad it never ever happens… ive never had that guy…

  3. RYAN

    awww…. agreed.

  4. love2u

    I also agree with aisha…:*:*

  5. Molls

    it’s a couple months too late, but i thought it was absolutely adorable :) so glad i stumbledupon your site :) makes me wonder why people feel as tho they should sometimes be romantic only once a year tho..

  6. lacey

    this is adorable and so true i’m glad i finally found the guy that feels exactly that for me :D

  7. kris

    sap

  8. mariah Carey

    this is not the first time i have seen this on the web i think it is so sweet and cute that some guys really like something like that about a girl

  9. veronicaromm

    I love this, its so cute, and some are even true.

  10. neo

    a bit stupid lol we love girls coz there cute? prefer my dog

  11. what

    this was obviously written by a girl
    look at some of these:

    5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
    -does this happen?

    7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end makes it all worth while
    -men do not like when girls make them wait hours while they dress, and it is never worthwhile…this is an outright lie?

    8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
    -oh yeah ;)

    10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she’s the most beautiful thing on this earth
    -this one i will forgive, because women do not seem to understand. NOTICE: MEN DO NOT LIKE WHEN YOU FISH FOR COMPLIMENTS

    15. The way she says “lets not fight anymore” even though you know that an hour later you will be arguing about something
    -again, what the hell? this might be the most erroneous item on the list. arguing can sometimes be fun, but never with a woman – think about it.

    21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
    this i do like. just thought id throw it in

    finally
    25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn’t hurt her anymore…..
    when the waterworks come i dont want to change the world, i just want to change the locks
    badumtcchh!

  12. James

    this makes me miss kate

  13. justin

    real relationships are definitely like this.

  14. Mark

    I’ve not felt that way about a girl for a few years now – makes me miss them…

  15. charles

    all of this is bs. it sounds like it was written by someone who just got dumped by their girlfriend. stop drooling and get a dog. girls aren’t sweet and nice anymore. wake up.

    haha, and i sound bitter. where’s the middle ground here?

  16. SkillitSkies

    Charles. You’re right, you do sound bitter. Maybe its cause you don’t have a puppy, it died, or your last gf was an idiot for losing you.

    Why can’t people face the facts that sometimes love does exist? >.>

  17. who

    #13 what on 09.04.08 at 4:56 pm

    You’re absolutely right. This is taken from a list of things girls like about men and the genders have been switched around (with a little alteration). It’s clear this hasn’t been written by a guy – and this is coming from someone who is pretty fulfilled as far as that goes.

  18. kaptin

    haha a girl definitely wrote this nonsense. the girls are always warm one? absolute bullshit. love does exist, but it’s not some hallmark channel fantasy like this, it’s a tolerance, an understanding, an unconditional acceptance of each other. girls are too busy looking for that knight in shining armor that will sweep them off their feet and adore the very ground they walk upon. that’s not love. that’s another in a long line of guys trying (and usually succeeding) in getting into your pants, and eventually leaving you pissed off and lonely again. things like this list irk me greatly.

  19. Gladys

    Written by a man who has clearly been in love.

  20. The Duncan

    This works for the first 2 or three months, I suppose.

  21. Amanda

    i think you trip in love sometimes….not really “fall”
    and i do like this but its kinda corny at times….cute but cheesy :]

  22. samson

    omg ghaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay
    bro

  23. psilo

    Comments #13 and #20 are not retarded.

  24. John M

    Pussies!

  25. smilyhat

    in response to ‘what’
    ..

    i pity you
    i hope that someday you will feel this and have this felt of you

    Love Rules <3

  26. Mama

    Sweet

  27. MOPED

    this is all just crazy we need to stop stumbling upon our life away and get a life

  28. Jess

    I found a guy like this…and he is the BEST!

  29. dhruv

    this seems just so true when……when u miss ur gal like hell when she’s left u :”(

  30. sherlyn medrianna

    Oh! i just wonder who you are? The reasons are totally true! You are one of the ROMANTIC guy in this world… It is so lovely…………

  31. a girl

    i don’t know, i actually find this a little demeaning, you know?
    19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry
    20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
    i mean really, is that a reason to like anybody?

  32. Lilly

    Analyzing the comments, I’m going to go out on a limb here and say the “gay, brah!” dudes haven’t gotten laid without going to the ATM first.

    But there’s hope, gentle oafs. You can continue to be a d-bag, but still get laid by simply printing out this list and putting it on the wall of your cubicle.

  33. Katatonic

    I just stumbled here, and I have to disagree with #8. I am NEVER warm. EVER. Cold blood running through these veins!

    And I agree with many of the previous posters, a chick DEFINITELY came up with this list. Most of these would make a man want to scratch his eyes out.

  34. Maria

    Someone called me cute when I was arguing once. That was some bullshit.

    And I seriously doubt I’m cute when I cry or sleep or eat.

  35. MdAmor

    Interesting comments to a good article.

  36. L Astor

    Lovely!!!

  37. I_not_us

    this is total bullshit.

    somewhere there is a 13 year old girl listening to lame love songs and writing more of this crap.

    this NEVER happens. fairytales dont happen. get over it people.

  38. Marebear2406

    @ what and every other idiot who posted anti hate comments directed at this post. You have either:

    A. NEVER been in love and/or been laid before in your entire life,

    or:

    B. A sad pathetic shell of human, who should do us all a favor and stop subjecting us to your acting out of your serious fear and distrust of women. It’s perhaps time that you simply get some therapy, and move on.

    News flash: NO GUY IS PERFECT EITHER!!! Get over yourself

  39. chris

    This is from the book “Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul”

  40. Betty Friedan

    This is sexist bullshit.

  41. apol

    This is just a sweet thing for girls…

  42. annyd

    this is so sweet! i really hope its true! i want that guy!

  43. shalini-loves-miley

    these points are from “chicken soup for the teenage soul 2″ you copy cat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  44. mcnee

    yea… I kinda said I found it and decided to post it.

  45. Mark R

    I have actually felt a lot of these things or thought these things about my last gf. Unfortunately she moved away in August for grad school and decided last week that a long distance relationship was not for her. God I miss her :’(

  46. um

    actually i’m a girl and with my last boyfriend i was ALWAYS the warm one.

    and just because this has never happened to you doesn’t mean it’s not real. grow upppp.

  47. John

    This is great:] I hope and I pray to God everyday that a person is out there growing for me and I to her, so we could be together till the end of times… and i do sincerely believe this.
    for any negative rebuffs I don’t care
    and for the positives rebuff life is GREAT!!!

  48. Cathy

    All of the stupid & rude comments down there, You all are just being ignorant. Appriciate this. They arent being pussies for saying all this ? They are just saying what they really think so why dont YOU all just grow up & appriciate this & learn how to treat a girl right. It doesnt matter how your friends or the people around you think, only what YOU & HER think.

    I love this. This is adorable & cute. i wouldnt be suprised if half of you guys commenting on this are single… Why dont you think of acting that way for once ?

  49. sunnie

    a perfect disclosure of the both sexes…weird thoughts but carry sheer reality…

  50. Makenzie

    This is sooooooo cute! Encouraging, too. Guys can be so much more adorable than they let on. ;)

  51. wolli

    this is just so damn wrong -.-
    Maybe girls like to think about us this way, but it is just wrong.
    more than half of the things of this list are actually stuff that we HATE about girls…

  52. Jonathan

    I think I remember reading this in Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul II. These words have stuck with me for a long time. And any guy that disagrees ought to have his heart stomped a thousand times… Just sayin’.

  53. Matt

    Was this written by a 12 yo? A quaint look at teenage love

  54. SLR Digital Camera

    I think this is very sweet. I really like number 21.

  55. Paul29YearsOld

    I got to number 4 when I started to throw up a little in my mouth.

    Oh puppy love…See if you can still love her in about 15 years, a morgage, and two bratty kids later.

  56. sam

    Wow everything i read was completely true!

  57. "what" is a douche

    whoever “what” is, u have no life and ur sexist… who cared who wrote the freakin article except for u. u just suck and u probably dont have a girlfriend

  58. Bellaisa

    Awwww, that’s cute. I wish more girls knew this!

  59. stumbledonthispost

    haha seriously, I think the comments are far more interesting than the actual post!

  60. Nano

    awww!!! almost made me cry lol

  61. Fashion Blog

    Aw! I think my BF loves me because I cook for him and leave his pillow smelling like my perfume (girls, a trick–wear your fav perfume all the time and then spray it on his pillow when he’s not looking! Smell is the best reminder)

  62. TrinityJenn

    That’s really sweet. Thank-you for sharing.

  63. steph

    this puts back my faith in the male race lol. so adorable, hope i found a guy that feels this way for me

  64. Izzy

    Omg. This is so sweet. I want to find a guy like this and then marry him!

  65. Crystal

    Agreed with Justin, exactly how a real relationship goes hahah.

  66. make him commit guy

    Great article thank you for sharing it with us, looking forward to more articles:)

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